Unspoken rules for the strip club
All adolescents yearn for the day they turn eighteen. Eighteen means freedom – the freedom to buy cigarettes and get a tattoo, that is. You’re finally considered a legal adult (although a sober one). Who cares that you can now be drafted? You’re old enough to see strippers!
Yes, strippers. Visiting a strip club is definitely a right of passage. The day after I turned eighteen, a couple of my guy friends took me to a grimy strip club to celebrate my entrance into adulthood. The room was dimly lit and reeked of cigars, but I was oblivious to everything but the scantily clad women undulating on stage.
What they were doing was beyond impressive. How many people do you know that can hang upside-down on a stripper pole as they remove their complicated string bikini – all the while wearing seven-inch heels?
Before you decry my lack of feminism, hear me out. Strip clubs can be degrading to women, absolutely. But they can also be empowering. One look around a strip club at the drooling businessmen and you know immediately who’s in charge. Selling one’s body is a choice, and I’m not about to condemn what someone wants to do with their body. As long as the strippers are being treated well by their patrons and by their bosses, it’s like any other form of employment that deals in the flesh (modeling, anyone?).
Furthermore, there’s scientific proof that pornography and strip clubs can actually be good for a society. A strong correlation exists between strip clubs — outlets for sexual repression — and decreased sexual assault. In Japan, for example, sex crimes decreased significantly when pornography and strip clubs were legalized. So while the very idea of a strip club is distasteful to many women, it does serve its purpose.
If you’ve never been to one, I recommend that you go at least once. For men the incentive is obvious. For women, strip clubs are the perfect place to pick up some new dance moves. Or to act on your lesbian fantasies. Or just to marvel at the footwear.
If you decide to go to a strip club, remember that they have a strict code of conduct. Most of the rules are unwritten, and if you don’t know them you’ll immediately stand out as a strip club virgin. Here’s a handy guide to make your first time more smooth:
- Pick the right place. In Chicago, I recommend The Admiral. It’s well-established, the place is clean, and the women are for the most part attractive. To find your own place, check out recommendations online.
- Bring lots of money. Most places will have an entrance fee ($20 and up for a quality strip club). You might also be required to buy the minimum of one drink (many strip clubs in Chicago don’t sell alcohol, but they are the only place I know of where a bottle of water costs $5). You’ll also need cash for lap dances. And don’t be one of the douches who pays for the cover charge and nothing else: It’s poor taste and you’ll just piss the dancers off. You’re there to spend money, because heaven knows nudity isn’t cheap.
- Be respectful. Don’t say negative things about the dancers. You’re there to appreciate, not judge. If you think a girl’s boobs are fake, keep it to yourself. Don’t laugh too loudly or the strippers might think you’re laughing at them (I actually had a friend get kicked out of club once for this offense). If a dancer approaches you about a lap dance – and they will, repeatedly and aggressively – and you’re not interested, make your refusal as polite as possible.
- Don’t touch. The strippers are allowed to touch you, but you’re not allowed to so much as pat them on the back. Keep your hands to yourself, but don’t touch yourself either. One dancer told me that men who grope themselves are high up on a stripper’s most-hated list. She also added that she detests it when customers lick her. Moral of the story? Keep your tongue and hands where they belong.
- Do what you came to do. You don’t go to a strip club to talk to your friend or send text messages or watch the big game (although it’ll probably be playing on a TV right next to the stage). You came to watch strippers. Doing otherwise is rude.
- Know main stage etiquette. Most strip clubs have a main stage where one dancer at a time is featured. If you sit close to the stage, it’s expected that you will give dollar bills to the strippers (or five dollar bills, but singles are more common). You can go about this several ways. If the stage is up high (like it is at the Admiral) fold the dollar in half lengthwise and set it on the stage. The stripper will come by to give you a little extra attention, at which point you can slip it in her garter (Note: she will open the garter – never touch the garter yourself.) If the stage is even with the floor, you can set the dollar bill on your thigh or just hold it up and she’ll come by to get it. And even though it sounds cool, don’t even think about making it rain.
These are just tips for “gentlemen’s clubs,” since I’ve shockingly never been to a male strip joint. But from what I hear, they’re a whole other game — a game I plan on playing as soon as my checking account recovers from my last stripping excursion.
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Unspoken rules for another rite-of-passage location: the dining hall. Or you can return home.
Whoa! In New Orleans you can’t get into a strip club unless you’re 18, because if you’re not getting drunk they don’t care about you. This is totally awesome.
Tommy Rousse
April 9, 2007 at 10:25 am
I thought you could touch above the waist in some Chicago strip clubs. Is that not true?
Jon Bueno
April 14, 2007 at 4:18 pm
I’ve personally never been to a club where it was allowed, but it never hurts to check the rules with the club’s manager before you go.
I think that a lot of clubs tend to look the other way when touching above the waist happens, but it’s generally considered poor taste and you can really offend the dancers if you’re not careful.
Jessi Knowles
April 14, 2007 at 5:12 pm
I forgot to hit “reply”, but my answer is posted below.
Jessi Knowles
April 14, 2007 at 5:13 pm
I am a dancer but new to Chicago. I agree whole heartedly with the majority of this, except that the girls I work with and I have no problem when someone “makes it rain” on us. We get a lot more money all at once without Really having to do a lot extra. I haven’t been to a club that has had a problem with it. (Feel free to do it with $5’s lol!) If anyone knows about any amateur nights in Chicago, feel free to email me at daisy_d_dees@yahoo.com
Daisy
April 29, 2007 at 11:50 pm
the most of the clubs where i stay will allow you to touch them but not in the private area but some girls will grab ur hand and place them on their breast and let rub them
and some will let you grab their ass but not the vagina or the anus.
but i have a question and this i for anybody who go to black strip clubs.
do the dancers be trying to get you off?
dont get me wrong or any thing,i dont espect to “get off” at a strip club but i think these ebony girls are used to it and do it as its part of the job and i dont have a problem with that
infact i have been going back to this strip club since that first night and it happens everytime and all the girls there use different techniques and when i “pop” they are ok with it and they come prepared with a towel to keep it from soaking and if i tell them that i came they smile and ask did i enjoy it.
i really like this club and would hate to see it get shut down if they get caught doing all that stuff i mentioned and please do not ask me for the name or location of this club cuz i ant saying nuttin
bodyguard
June 18, 2007 at 1:04 am
oh and i do give a nice tip afterwords.
oh and no they do not touch the actual penis but if i wear some jogging pants they will jack me off through the pants.
but one time i went on a tuseday night at 12:30 and the club closed at 1:30 and when i got there it was 5-6 dancers left trying to find that last customer and since i was the last customer (but it was 3 other guys still there)i was aproached by one dancer after another so i finally picked one and she gives me a quick table dance
and she left and girl number 2 comes up so i sit and chat with her but i passed so girl number 3 comes up and while shes not the best looking girl she did have a really nice and slighty thick body (my favorite type)so i took her to the vip room since it was only 30 mins left before they closed.
so we went in to the room and she takes of all her clothes(did i mentioned that this club was full nudity)
so she starts with the standard grinding pelvic thrusts and i got hard and she let off a soft moan and then during song 2 she gets even freakier and actually pulls my dick out and softy strokes it and turns around and backs that ass up and grinds it on my exposed dick (no insertion) and dose this thing where she strokes my cock with her ass cheaks and then she dose it with her tits and when song 3 started playing she then grabs my dick and works the head of it around her pussy then she slowly inserts the tip in and i can feel her wetness
then she sticks my dick back in my pants and straddles me and starts grinding hard and right as the song ends she stops and gets up and asked me did i cum i said no but i was going to so she sit back down on my lap (with her back to me)and grinds some more then i came and assoon a i did the bouncer was coming so she quickly got up and ushered me out of the vip section and while we were walking she asked me again “did i cum” and i said yes and she smiled and walked off to the dressing room and i was escorted to the door by the bouncer(on a good note)cuz he had to look the door and that ended the best night of my life
and yes she got a big tip :D
and if you are wondering what dose this have to do with the topic its very simple……..
it just shows that no matter what if you are at the right place at the right time you may get a little more than you bargin for…
oh and if you were wondering if my story is real the answer is hell yeah but you dont have to beleve me i bet some of you have an unbelevable story yourself
bodyguard
June 18, 2007 at 1:49 am
I find your comments to be incredibly racist and misogynistic. This place you’re going isn’t a strip club – it’s a brothel. At a real strip club they wouldn’t get you off, because then they wouldn’t get any more money out of you afterwards.
Get a girlfriend if you’re looking for someone to get you off for free. Otherwise it’s prostitution.
Jessi Knowles
June 18, 2007 at 1:50 am
look…..im a black guy so whats racist about it?
and i was just asking a queston cuz i was just wondering had anyone else experienced this at a black club besides me
and one other thing…..
its not a brothel it is a well known strip club with many more locations in the US
like i said the first time
i do not go there to “get off” its just that i think that it’s what they are trying to do, but i will try some other clubs just to see if i get the same treatment
if not then maybe you are right.
as for getting a girlfriend.
i don’t have time for one right now and most girls have a really bad attitude problem that i don’t care to put up with, im not the best looking guy and im a little on the heavy side,however i do treat women with with respect.
but to get back on topic,
it was just a queston in the first place……. thats all
so if any body has went to a black strip club and had girls do that to them?
bodyguard
June 18, 2007 at 4:46 pm
its a shame that people like him are even allowed at strip clubs at all because 98% of the stuff he thinks that goes on at a club doesn’t happen at any of the clubs i work at and ill bet that he is in a seedy club that breaks all the rules.
if he came to any club that i work at and tryed that mess, i would add his name to the new black list system that we are using(more on that in a bit)and he will not be a threat to any other strip club in the area.
i know most strippers that i work with really hates people like him and they come and get me everytime some loser cums in his pants
during a lap dance and its my job to send their asses out the door and some times to jail.
if all strip clubs used our new black list system then we could all have a good time.
the black list system is a program for the palm pilot id info of the person that is taken to all clubs though out the city
and put into other palm pilot at each club
and each night that the club is open we swipe the id of the person though the card reader and see if their names come up blacklisted and if so they are just asked to leave.
i know that this may be wrong but its my job to protect the dancers and make them feel safe at work and if it will keep people like bodyguard away then so be it.
Devon
June 21, 2007 at 4:12 am
This site claims that touching above the waist is OK at Heavenly Bodies. Is that true? http://www.cyberkeyclub.com/club_reviews/heavenlybodies/heavenlybodies.htm
Jon
July 22, 2007 at 2:53 pm
Devon,
Why the big problem when the guy cums in his pants. Is it because he is now ready to leave and won’t spend any more money? I’ve cum a few times and while the girls aren’t happy about it, they aren’t pissed off either.
Nick
September 6, 2007 at 12:31 pm
I have been to a few stip clubs, I never touch the dancers unless I am getting a private dance and she allows me to, not inappropriate though. I dont know how you guys cum without actually having a form of sex
Tom
October 13, 2007 at 3:48 pm
Hi man Its wonderful to listen to your words about Strip club.
I was very interested to go to that strip club . can you tell me its name. My mail Id is chitturi.umeshbabu@gmail.com
umesh
October 21, 2007 at 5:00 am
I have gone to strip clubs a lot and i usually expect to cum at some point during the evening. There are always a few dancers that really love to go that far. And I have gotten jacked off and sucked on in the club. One very gorgeous girl put her ass in my face, bent forward, and pulled my dick out and totally sucked me until I squirted all over the floor.
Eric
December 5, 2007 at 1:34 am
This entire thread is pretty disgusting.
Aaron Morse
December 5, 2007 at 2:10 am
I can’t believe you guys are prudish enough to say that cumming at a strip bar is a sin. Give yourselves a break. It’s sex… not death or a horrible violent act. If the girl takes your cock out and jacks it off. BIG FUCKING DEAL and good for the guy lucky enough to get that done.
Ivanos
March 25, 2008 at 2:57 am
Yeah…Devon you are an asshole haha. I would spit all over your strip club and beat the shit outta you. ROFL
Jaymonsta
May 15, 2008 at 7:41 pm
Great page, I liked it a lot. I’ll would like to see it on http://www.chicagoscores.net
JOEL
May 19, 2008 at 11:34 pm
I totally agree with your post Jessica. I think being a stripper is both empowering and degrading. I was a stripper for a few years and stopped. I experienced both of the feelings you described. Hey that’s a pretty cool site!
Melissa
May 21, 2008 at 12:16 am
I sort of prefer the web site that isn’t dirty for bachelor parties like http://www.chicagobachelorspots.com
Marissa
Marissa
May 24, 2008 at 4:50 pm
Isn’t there a list of just Chicago strip clubs. I thought I saw one at
http://www.chicagostripclublist.com
I don’t think heavenly bodies allows touching.
Carrol
Carrol
May 27, 2008 at 12:34 pm
I went to Heavenly Bodies a couple of times and when I was there I very politely asked the girls if there was touching allowed. Two of them told me I could put my hands on their waists, but nothing more, which was fine. They were the best about it and at the time I didn’t understand the significance of the personal act of touching. Now that I am older, I wouldn’t probably ask to touch unless they initiated it. I have never been to a club that allowed anything more than that by the customer.
Dennis
June 16, 2008 at 8:56 pm
I’m an NU alum but now live in LA. When I lived in Chicago I used to go the Crazy Horse and a club in the South Loop (I forgot the name, it was a girl’s name like “Scarlett’s”, but I think now it’s closed)
The Crazy Horse served alcohol, which means it was all air dance, the girls would put their hands on your shoulders or knees at the most. However before they took their clothes off you could have them sit on your lap and stroke their legs or back.
The South Loop club did not serve alcohol, so they were allowed to grind on you, but I never tried touching them.
Now, out here in LA, I just discovered clubs in the valley (I won’t give the name because I don’t want to blow it) where you can touch the girls during the dance anywhere but their privates officially.
And depending on the girl, they’ll let you go farther. One girl enthusiastically came on to me, asked me to wash my hands, then during the dance put my hands on her and asked me to finger her. She let me insert my fingers fully, front and back, grab and lick her breasts, she put her hands down my pants and jacked me off under my shirt.
She did not want to get caught so we had to watch for the bouncers, but this stuff definately happens.
BTW, this should all be legal IMO. Like it is in Canada. :)
NU Alum Mike
June 27, 2008 at 11:36 am
One more thing, if you’re one of those “get a girlfriend” voices… you don’t get it. The value of strip clubs and prostitues is not that they give you a sexual experience, it’s that after the experience they disappear. :)
Girlfriends are far more expensive when you consider the time and energy you need to put into them.
Don’t get me wrong, relationships are great, I have several right now! But sometimes men just need it without all the bs, and paying for it is the perfect humane exchange of value. Those girls are angels.
The only reason this bothers women is that women understand instinctively that they can use sexuality to contain and control a man, and when men have this option it diminishes that control.
Sorry babe, deal with it.
NU Alum Mike
June 27, 2008 at 11:59 am
i am a dancer in Ohio, I’ve worked in Neworleans also. I’m planning on going to Chicago does anyone have any suggestions as to where to work, i want a clean club that brings in the cash ;)
also as a dancer if you do find the girls that are willing to touch you or let you touch them, them think how many other guys they have been touching. personally i dont get offended if guys ask me because it doesnt hurt to try, but thats not what i’m there for and if a guy were to try even tough i told him no he would be out on his ass in a second. guys dont disrespect the girls at the clubs! we work for you if you work for us
athena
July 8, 2008 at 10:07 am
Where I live, in private lap-dances, you are allowed to touch a girl anywhere you want except the pussy. Although some girls are so comfortable with it, they will let you finger them. One time a girl even came to my car to let me fuck her for $80.
Joe
July 9, 2008 at 3:16 pm
P.S.: Yes all that is legal in Canada. Everything is. Even if it’s not, people are cool. In fact, the United States in the only country in the world that is so taboo about something so as natural as nudity and sex.
All your women are fat and ugly. Pretty ones are rare and so you need to either spend loads of $ to “get some” or you need to really have some incredible game/status/wealth/looks/etc. Well guess what, in canada, these babes are so abundant, the sex drives from it already makes you alpha enough :)
Joe
July 9, 2008 at 3:20 pm
Yeah, I’ve lived in Philly for a while now, and I don’t go to those really snooty strip clubs that don’t allow any touching. But I haven’t been to any where it seems like the girls will give you a blowjob in a private dance either. I personally like that middle ground.
But this is what I’m blown away by…it’s insulting if a guy comes in a lap dance? I can understand if a guy does it in like 30 seconds, but what’s the fun of a lap dance if there’s not even the possibility of cums?
Why pay all that money JUST to LOOK at naked women from a stage…makes no sense to me
SK
August 8, 2008 at 7:07 am
these girls are working girls. they don’t give a fuck about your needs, unless it will put $$$ in their pocket. they ain’t gonna risk gettin HIV unless they crazy or if you puttin big $$$ in their pocket. but then again, there is the occasional very horny girl on drugs that gets particularily permiscouous at work and she lets you stick your finger in her warm fuzzy pocket. that’s my kinda girl. too bad there so few and far between.
jboo
August 10, 2008 at 10:54 pm
I live in Canada. We have had times when the law/court allowed touching anywhere on the girl. Other times where you were not allowed to touch everything. It is a bit of a mix right now, but in general you do not touch the pussy.
Most girls I have had dance want to allow more than the club allows.
There was a couple glory years back in the early 90’s. A judge had a case where a club was allowing touching and the law charged them. The judge actually went by the book and not public opinion and called touching innocuous. The next couple years it was wide open touching.
There were far more patrons, far more girls. Clubs were packed. Girls would often just say to you, please don’t insert. Interesting that there was never a case of anyone contracting anything for the 2 years. Not a single health issue. The court eventually overturned the decision, when a small group of dancers campaigned heavily for the law to return to the old status quo. There issue was mainly health and public opinion saw it their way, after all HIV was very prominent on everyones mind.
Generally now, the closer you are to the center of the city, the more strict it will be, Montreal for example. The other factor is the higher end the club in terms of venue/building the more strict. This does not necessarily mean better looking girls.
IAMCANDIAN
August 13, 2008 at 11:31 am
i don’t fully agree with bodyguard about getting you off but the last time i went to a strip club this beautiful black girl gave me a lapdance at closing time and she definitely did more than a normal dancer would. she didn’t make me cum but she definitely let me hold her in places that most likely wouldn’t be acceptable for strippers. she put me in positions where i would have to grab her ass or other parts of her body but never her pussy. i’ve never gone to a strip club yet where the girls try to make you cum in your pants. that’d be a helluva cleanup inside the club but i’m not saying i don’t believe you. i bet guys would tip more if you pushed them over the edge like that….
amtrax
August 15, 2008 at 12:50 pm
Imagine that the poster of this blog would even suggest that strip clubs are good for society? I have no problem w/ someone visiting a strip club. However, it’s the girls in the industry who are left behind.
I can’t tell you how many girls I’ve seen start dancing as soon as they hit 18 or 21. After a while, they quit school and go on to dance full time. Inside, they know they are screwing up their lives but yet they continue on doing it because they are so used to earning money in the club, they simply have no desire to join the real world. At one point, a few break out and try to do other things..but for the most part, they stay in the business. Even girls who try to stop..eventually discover their good looks have faded and that they lack any real job skills..and come running back to the club. It’s actually very pathetic!
Kathy
August 16, 2008 at 7:55 am
yeah read all the comments some were funny some were stupid.i
I got my own rules of thumb for strippers/there customers
1)(strippers) this pisses me off the most DONT fkn come up to me asking if id like a dance and then if i say no or maybe lata you walk away and never speak 2 me again. I dont care how hot your are if u want to make 100 bucks for 4 shortend songs of dancing then atleast try to generate a conversation with me, I know you could care less about what i have too say but sht i had this one girl one night we had a conversation and after it was over i gave her 100 bucks for actually sitting there having a normal intelligent conversation with me.( some guys arnt perverts and just go to clubs to get off some will spend money on u just for the simplest thing called talking)So next time ladies becareful when u shrug off a guy who says he doesent do lap dances it might be me and you could bemissing out on 100 bucks or more for just sitting ther and having a decent conversation with me.
1)(customers) Old men 55+, Really big fat guys with poor hygiene. the jocks from high school who think there gods gift to these women and that there saving em from all us mediocore guys who come there to just drink have a few and relax to some hot ladies getting naked. bad hygiene in general
ok that one was a bit side tracked but them people are so retarded i just wanna get up and beat the sht outta them
2. guys that go to strip clubs and dont tip or if they do they give the girl a buck to rub all over them. fkn sick bastards no wonder u cant get any action in real life your to fkn chap and your a loser to boot.
3.dont touch the ladies its patehtic the fact that u have to ask means your a loser who just wantsto see what thigh feels like.
4.if your gonna tip tip atleast a 5 spot u spend more on lube to jack off anyway atleast at a strip club u can get a nice scent of a women.
5.ladies just cause some 1 isnt great looking maybe u should still give him a chance anyway you never know whos a big tipper if just spend some time with them who knows u might have a better time with him then the pretty boy jock whos only though is im getting that ho in the sack 2nite.
6.guys dont sit near the main stage it just makes u seem more desperate (but ifs the only place 2 sit on a friday nite by all means sit)
7.ladies dont bring your boyfriends to the club omg do not do this if your boyfriends there your gonna spend all the time with him and not make any loot.
8.Guys if u cum (i dont care what anyone says we all have done it esspecially if u get a sht load of dances and the girls really grinding u hard) be polite say im sry to the dancer i hope ididnt offend u by doing that if anything it should be a compliment to the dancer(not in the first 30 seconds of the dance though lol u know who u are) and for that bouncer who has the black list fk u asswad if a guy cums and the dancer doesent mind it who thefuck r u to criticize your afkn bouncer at a strip club u aint to bright meat head if u chose that as your career. and guys if u do cum atleast give her and xtra $20 bucks on top of the original tip its only fair.
9.DONT go to a club to get anything but a show a beer maybe a decent covo and titties and pussy as far as the eyes can see lol. those of u who go for sex are pathetic and are a discrace to the human race and make me ashamed that your a man any type of sex act in a strip club is wrong and to solicit it you belong in jail.
10. Ladies plz do me this favor dont get caught up in the bad sht that strip clubs have to offer(Drugs,prostitution,asshole b/fs ull meet there who will treat u like sht.) and dont beleave anything that comes outta guys mouth esspecially when it come to money and his work and offering u modeling gigs and sht ive seen so many girls fall for this sht and it fks them up badly.
10b. Ladies get an education working at is a strip club is fun and a good way to makemoney when your 18-24 but when your a 35 year old crack whore looking for a hand out which means u doing god knows what to make that money ull look back on the day u read my post and say brian was right.
Thank you for listening some point were off the rules portion but really enjoyed writing it yes i know have my shts in one sentence im a little baked at the moment and dont feel like putting commas and sht after every sentence lol
brian
August 19, 2008 at 1:27 am
When I went to canada the strip clubs are great it $2 cover charge lap dances are like $20 but can be negtiable. I got long ass lap dance by 2 hot girls for like $60 they let tounch everthing and told me to tounch everthing, One stripper got wet.
go to canada
September 11, 2008 at 12:12 am
Oops! I thought I should say, “thank you” after I cum! LOL!
Jersey Dood
November 11, 2008 at 10:40 pm
Wao, this discussion has been going on for quite some time. I just wanted to add my 2 cents, strip clubs on different places have different rules. Never been to chicago (I’m looking forward to it), but I’ve been to many places since clubs are my hobby (www.thestripclubsearch.com). so a club in New york, one in Miami and another in chicago really have little in common.
Rick
December 19, 2008 at 8:24 pm
what is the BEST city (outside of vegas) in the US for strippers. i’m in Chicago, but since rich mentioned that strip clubs differ greatly from city to city
but if you’re looking for a decent place in the chicago area, i’ve had fun at Black Jacks Gentlemen’s Club
though it’d be cool to try a different city
Steak24
April 10, 2009 at 12:00 pm
there is a brand new club called “the factory” in chicago (773)468-4475 is there main number and the girls who work there are all beautiful, i’ve only seen one who i think is truly unattractive and nasty.most of these girls are amazing dancers who really know how to work the poll but the factory is a very high end club, everyone needs to check out. there is nothing else like it in chicago.
it drives me crazy when guys just come into clubs pay the cover and don’t spend a dime more than that. you are pathetic and sad. if you just want to look at ass and titties get your self a play boy or down load some porn. these ladys are not only her to entertain you but they are first and foremost at these clubs to make money. dancing is there job and news flash the girls dont get payed if you don’t tip, so do be a cheep bastard. they are there working hard for your money shanking what there ma’mas gave them so show your appreciation!.
and there is one more thing i cant stand just because a girl dances dose not make her a hoe so do not assume that just because she is a stripper that she is going to sleep with you and or that you can treat her in a disrespectful manor. that is just bullshit.
girly
April 29, 2009 at 6:26 am
The article was good, and the comments were amusing. I’m going to be turning 18 soon and I have been looking into working at a club. As “girly” mentioned, The Factory seems to be a very nice place. Also, as Brian said, I agree with all of his little rules and appreciate them very much.
Dancers dance for their work and their money. We don’t get tipped, we don’t get paid. We don’t get paid, we don’t pay necessities. So be respectful and tip well.
Also adding to “girly”’s comment, I want to note that dancers are not only not hoes, but they also are not all uneducated and “dumb-blond” like. I, myself, plan on majoring in English so as to be an freelance Editor and also a freelance author in my time outside of massage therapy work. How well that will all work out together has yet to be seen, but I think I’ve proven my point. I have high ambitions for myself and also believe that working at a strip club can and should be an empowering thing for women.
Kat
May 10, 2009 at 2:45 am
Try the strip clubs in metro-Detroit. Pretty much anything goes. Hand jobs, blow jobs, all out sex (with or without protection) are always available at ANY club you go to from 90% of the girls. Prices may vary from $50 for HJ, $100 for BJ and $150 and up for FS. Trust me – any club has this going on. Very common sight to see guys getting it. People just look the other way as times are tough and “dancers” need their money to pay for college.
Jeff Smith
May 17, 2009 at 4:43 pm
The Flight Club in Inkster, MI is one of the best. I have got pretty much everything you can want from some VERY hot girls there. Last night there were girls having sex with customers all night. I would say that 90% of the dancers will give blow jobs swallowing all the evidence. A good third to half of the ladies will let you fuck them if that’s your thing. And all of them will do private dances off site where anything can happen (and has for me) for the right price. Fun times. If you go, seek out “Brandy”. She’s a GOOD time.
Eric Kerr
June 7, 2009 at 12:36 pm
Henry the VIII stripclub in detroit area allows you to lick and suck on the titties. I was at the nipples chewing for atleast 3 minutes. The dancer allowed me to make out with her pussy lips. The best experience ever in any club so far…and she was white, young and sexy…I get it off till date just thinking about those 8 minutes. Ask for Amber
Gravis
September 13, 2009 at 4:50 pm
These rules are non-sense. Don’t touch me. Don’t lick me. I work in Memphis and I’m just as horny as the guys that come in the clubs. I like to break a sweat when I’m dancing. I pick the guys out that I dance for and I love it when I make them cum. Rub my pussy and suck on my nipples. Bite them if you like. Finger fuck me. If you turn me on good enough, then I might just fuck you. I’ve fucked in the club, in guys’ cars and in hotel rooms. If I’m horny enough, then I might fuck you for free. I work at the clubs because I’m horny all the time and I like to make money. Fuck a guy for free and he’ll keep coming back and I’ll make more money. Take him home he’ll spend every dollar he has to try and get laid again.
Kimberly
September 29, 2009 at 8:21 pm