Girls raise their tops, lower their skirts for the modesty movement
Urban Outfitters’ Early Spring 2009 catalog features about eight photos with topless girls – either completely nude or wearing “underwear as outerwear.” The only thing missing in these photos is the “come-hither” look.
Topless, bottomless, nude – it’s something that American Apparel has been doing forever.
This “trend” of wearing bras as tops has also popped up on the Spring ‘09 runways of Alexander Wang, Thakoon, and Prada.
“No one’s noticing the clothes,” said Weinberg sophomore Jasmin Avila of the ads and runways. “We’ve already taken everything off. What is it going to be next – we’re walking around naked? I don’t see where else we can go.”
Avila is part of a current “modesty movement” – women and girls who reject overly revealing clothing, but not fashion altogether. This means no cleavage, no short skirts, and definitely no “underwear as outerwear.” As a proud, self-proclaimed modest dresser, Avila said that people sometimes look down on dressing modestly.
“People think like, ‘Oh my gosh, puritanical conservatives, people that want to wear turtlenecks all the time, people that wear potato sack nightgowns,’” she said. “When you say, ‘Oh, I like to dress modestly,’ people think you’re a prude, you know? It’s such a terrible perspective to have about it. I just think that, essentially, modesty is a form of self-respect.”
-Chi Nguyen, former 3iying marketing researcher
Avila said she’s not a fan of cleavage or of uncomfortable tight dresses, but she’s still a fan of stylish clothing.
“Fashion is a form of expression. I totally agree with that,” Avila said. “But there are many ways you can express yourself, and I don’t think that dressing like a slut is one of them.”
Organizations and clothing companies that advertise balancing fashion and modesty have grown in the past few years. Pure Fashion, a Catholic-based organization, teaches 14- to 18-year-old girls how to wear trends respectfully and put on fashion shows yearly. Pure Fashion has grown from nine shows and 240 participants in 2005 to 25 shows and about 800 participants this year, according to national director Brenda Sharman.
“Our world kind of preaches the message of, ‘It’s all about being hot and sexy and that should be our life’s mission,’” Sharman said. “I think a woman has a lot more to offer to the world than just being hot and sexy.”
Sharman is a former Vanity Fair lingerie model with a modeling career of 25 years and counting. After becoming pregnant with her first child, Sharman began researching religions, converted to Catholicism, and became more conscious of the clothing she wore and advertised.
“My conscience was resensitized, I should say,” Sharman said. “I started feeling more of an accountability to live and dress and act in accordance to my dignity as a woman of God. I wanted to represent Christ by not only with what I say and or how I live, but by what I wear.”
Modesty organizations aren’t always religious. Chelsea Rippy, a 34-year-old mother, founded Shade Clothing because she wanted fashionable, comfortable and modest clothing for women and girls. It has grown by double digits each year for the past four years, is carried in Costco and Macy’s and has six stores in Arizona and Utah.
“I think now sexy is kind of dying out,” said Chi Nguyen, 17, who, when interviewed, served as a team member of “girl marketing” research group 3iying. “Girls are starting to wear what they feel comfortable in. Instead of going out and showing what they have, they actually just say, ‘Oh you know, I’m just going to be myself and whoever likes it will stick around.’”
To Nguyen, modestly-dressed women empower themselves. “We are able to just respect ourselves and be who we are,” she said. “That superficial girl stereotype – I don’t think it affects girls anymore.”
Nguyen’s “superficial girl stereotype” refers to the media’s portrayals of femininity. Pure Fashion’s Sharman said the modesty movement is a backlash against oversexualized images of womanhood in the media.
There’s the idea that girls and women are moving towards a state where they dress to feel comfortable, not wanting to be objectified. Avila defines this tendency as dressing attractively, rather than dressing seductively.
“One is more of ‘I have a purpose [to] attract people to me and get to know me because I’m a cool person,’ whereas dressing seductively is like [wanting to hear] ‘Wow, she is like, oozing sex,’ and I just don’t think that’s a healthy thing,” Avila said. “If that’s the only thing they think of when they are getting ready to go out, in the end they’re just going to see themselves like objects – sex objects.”
-Jasmin Avila, Weinberg sophomore
Consequently, controversial author Wendy Shalit, who has written books on this subject such as “The Good Girl Revolution”, derails the feminists revolution of sexual empowerment by examining the effects of such sexual flippancy on young girls. A major advocate of the modesty movement, Shalit claims that such sexual “empowerment” is ironically oppressive. She calls modesty the fourth feminists revolution, a sentiment echoed by others.
“I think that we are taking two steps forward,” said Weinberg sophomore Maura Ross, the fundraising co-chair of Northwestern University’s College Feminists. “Realizing that we don’t need to impress men with our bodies to get things, and [also] that we are powerful in who we are and we can step forward from the whole idea of the housewife.”
Critics of the modesty movement call it a return to male dominance, a fall back from the sexual liberation of the 1960s. Currently, there are two contradictory messages in the feminism world.
“So this girly movement is saying, ‘I’m female. I’m different. I have this body that looks different from men. I have these talents, this ability to create power from my body,’” said Weinberg senior Elizabeth Porth, Take Back the Night co-chair of College Feminists. “Then there’s this other side that’s centered on proving sameness. … I think what the feminist movement can do as a group is to say that this is a choice. Women can do either thing and still be able to be considered equal.”
It’s important to differentiate between those who dress provocatively because they are comfortable with themselves and those who dress for attention, said Porth. Empowerment comes with the former. Porth mentioned writer and journalist Elizabeth Wurtzel as a hard-to-find, empowered, sexy woman.
“She is, I think, a very empowering and confident person,” Porth said. “But when she was younger she was kind of a sexualized person at the same time. Her book covers had her basically half-naked on them. But it was kind of like ‘Ha, ha, I’m hot and I’m a really freakin’ good writer, so read my book.’”
Once again, there’s a difference between dressing confidently and dressing for others. And Avila, among other modesty advocates, finds that dressing modestly does not always mean dressing like a prude.
“One of my friends said this awesome quote,” Avila said. “‘Wear a dress that’s tight enough to show that you’re a woman, but loose enough to show that you’re a lady.’”
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this “trend” begins even earlier, check mj & lv spring 08 or prada f/w 08. it’s not necessarily new….
http://www.nytimes.com/2007/10/25/fashion/shows/25LINGERIE.html
other than that, good story.
dots
February 18, 2009 at 2:52 am
Ha. You go, Jojo.
Josh
February 18, 2009 at 12:11 pm
Totally agree : “We are able to just respect ourselves and be who we are” =) Keep it up girls!
katze
February 18, 2009 at 1:44 pm
I laughed when I read the quote, “I think sexy is dying out.” Really? In the same article where you link to nudity on a clothing website? Sexy’s not dying out, sexy is the social manifestation of a biological imperative. It’s always true that poor college students, while at school, are going to focus more on comfort than being sexy, at least during the wee. But if you’ve ever been to a party with alcohol after 10:00pm, you know that sexy – or at least, Northwestern’s attempt at it – has frequent revivals.
I find it mildly offensive that they’re saying that modesty is a form of self-respect, or that dressing modestly is the only way not to be objectified. I know this isn’t what they were trying to say, but it reminds me of the old notion that people who are sexually assaulted while wearing a low-cut blouse are “asking for it.” It should be a matter of choice, not of conditional respect or forced morality. If I choose to dress in a “sexy” manner because when I wear something that I look good in, I feel more confident, then I feel THAT is about self-respect. I also don’t think it’s fair to men to say that you will be objectified if you don’t dress modestly.
I agree with Porth, who seems very knowledgeable, and would rather hear more from her on the subject.
Katherine
February 18, 2009 at 3:22 pm
Katherine, you’ve been taking women’s studies courses, haven’t you? If you choose to dress in sexy manner, fine, but don’t be surprised or “offended” if your dress attract a certain kind of attention. That same “biological imperative” that you speak of is at work when you choose to dress sexy.
There’s nothing offensive about saying that modesty is a form of self-respect. It takes a victimist ideology to take offense at that. People who wear low-cut blouses of course aren’t asking for sexual assault, but they are asking for people to look at their boobs. Fine if you want to do that. Totally appropriate in some settings and circumstances. But there’s no need to dis people who prefer to maintain a certain kind of dignity by keeping themselves covered, and keeping some things private.
Kelly
February 18, 2009 at 9:31 pm
Unfortunately, I fail to see the correlation between dignity and keeping oneself covered. Surely, I prefer knee-length skirts, but I tend to favor lower-cut blouses. This is not because it generates a certain type of attention, but mainly because it is just more comfortable for me. I have nothing against dressing modestly, but I also have nothing against dressing to show a little more of one’s body. I have problems with people dressing in a revealing fashion simply to draw attention, but if it is just how one likes to see them self or the way they feel most comfortable, I see nothing wrong with it and find it offensive to shame them for it. Not all women dress in revealing clothes for the attention. And I feel like saying this is very similar to the culture of slut-shaming that also permeates our society. If you want to cover up, fine. But don’t tell me that showing some skin is evidence of low self-esteem and lack of respect for myself. Because really, while that can be said of some women in revealing clothes, the very same can be said about a woman who keeps her body hidden.
Hanna
February 19, 2009 at 1:37 am
I don’t mean to disrespect anyone’s choice to dress modestly, and I’m sorry if that’s how it came across. I just meant that it implied that the alternative – dressing in a manner that is not focused on modesty – means that you are lacking in self-respect. It’s a personal choice, certainly. There are motivations other than the obvious ones – IE, I want someone to look at my boobs – for wearing a low-cut blouse. For instance, if you have large breasts and a small waist, wearing something that covers you completely on top can be unflattering, and make you look larger. And I’m concerned that saying, “be modest and get respect,” is saying it’s okay to be disrespectful of someone who is not dressed modestly, which is pretty patriarchal. There are certainly times when being less-than-modest is disrespectful and distracting, but not all the time. It’s like… how you feel vaguely better about yourself when you’re wearing cute underwear, even when you know no one is going to see it. If I wear things where I’m all covered up, sometimes I just feel frumpy, even if I look fine.
And ultimately, people who dress modestly, but fashionably, are looking for attention, too. And you can’t give someone a hard time for asking for attention if you’ve ever carried a designer logo bag, worn a Burberry novacheck scarf, or back-door-bragged when someone said they liked your shirt and you said, “Thanks! Marc Jacobs is totally my favorite designer.”
There’s such a thing as taking it too far, but I don’t see a whole lot of point in trying to hide the fact that yes, I do have breasts.
Katherine
February 19, 2009 at 2:53 am